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Aren’t Sunday evenings odd?

They are melancholy, a reminder that the weekend always ends too soon.

They are refreshing, knowing a brand new week is ahead with wonderful possibilities.

They are pressured, ensuring everything’s ready for the coming week.

They are reflective, remembering all the blessings we have.

Despite it all, I love them. I love Sunday evenings almost more than any night. There’s an unusual mix of nerve/unknown for the coming week and the final hours of relaxation. I feel free from the past week’s stresses and have a renewed resolve for tackling what’s ahead.

Our typical Sunday evening consists of a grand, home-cooked meal paired with a good wine. The apartment is clean from my Saturday flurry of chores. Puppy worn out from weekend activities. Fridge full. Clothes washed. Bed made.

And of course, the best television is on Sunday nights. Of late, we’ve had The Walking Dead and Revenge to distract our minds from the impending Monday morning. Or sometimes we like a really good movie to keep us entertained.

So this Sunday evening, I encourage you to focus on the positives, not the tomorrows. Enjoy the relaxing time you have with your loved ones.

xo xo

Inspire Me: Saturday

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Amen. Enjoy your SATURDAY.

xo xo

p.s. have you checked out Kate Spade Saturday, yet? love, love. ❤

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life lately

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{celebrating // a beautiful friend’s bachelorette party}

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{brunching // with mimosas on a patio. Is there any other way?}

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{traveling // to Dayton, OH for work and the sweet old guy on the plane gave me this list of things to do in town}

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{eating // this amazing deliciousness that is Pho}

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{enjoying // a final night with my dear friend moving to LA}

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{critiquing // contemporary art at 21c}

xo xo

p.s. I did wear the exact same outfit two Friday nights in a row with two different groups of friends.
My secret is out.

7: Stress // Update

It’s official. I am not stopping this challenge at the end of the two weeks.

Guys, can I tell you how much this prayer time helps throughout the day? Picture me: an anxious, perfectionist, worrier, easily stressed person in a pretty high stress job. (I know, I know how stressful can social media be, right? Walk a mile in my shoes.)

Picture this: God is here for me 24/7. God wants me to be refreshed and refocused throughout the day. God doesn’t want me to be stressed or anxious or worried.

Now I’m not saying I’ve been perfect. I’m not sure if there’s even been one day when I’ve prayed the full 7 times, but I’m definitely praying more than I ever have throughout the day strategically.

When I was in Ohio last week traveling alone, the nightly prayers and Psalms were a tremendous comfort.

When I took a 2-minute pause in a hectic workday at 9:30am to ask the Spirit to bless my work with composure, creativity, inspiration and love and I felt overwhelmingly refreshed.

When I used the drive home to transition out of work and into the evening with family, I felt peace and thankfulness.

What a difference this makes in my day to day. I’ve been learning how easy it is to push God aside throughout the day and fit Him into our schedule, rather than the other way around. When I want everything I do to glorify Him, why not let Him lead my day through prayer?

I think Paul was on to something when he said “pray ceasingly.”

xo xo

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Coachella Fashion Awards

Coachella, according to my Instagram and Twitter feeds: Celebrities come together in a desert to outdress each other’s hippie attire and lounge poolside at picturesque parties. Oh and I think there’s something about music, too.

 [best day to night transformation – julianne hough]

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[best hat + sunglasses combo – alessandra ambrosio]Model Alessandra Ambrosio is seen with her friends attending Coachella Valley Music and Arts Festival in Indio

[best “trying to look like a hippie, but I’m so not” – paris hilton]

Paris Hilton is seen attending Coachella Valley Music and Arts Festival wearing a blue print dress in Indio

[best sexy day makeup – diane kruger]

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[best poolside loungewear – sophia bush]

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[best easy breezy – whitney port]

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[worst dressed – vanessa hudgens]

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[worst dressed couple – kristen stewart, robert pattinson]

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[worst florals – katy perry]

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[most out of place attire – sophia bush, eli roth]

Harper's BAZAAR Hosts Coachella Poolside Fete At The Parker Palm Springs

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[best poolside party]

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Catch me next Monday when I’ll be reviewing weekend 2 of Coachella!

xo xo

Hello lazy Saturday, it’s been a while

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{watched Breaking Dawn Pt. 2}

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{jimmy johns run}

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{took a nap}

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{now its magazines on the couch time}

Happy Lazy Saturday! xo

7: Stress

One of my least favorite things is when someone asks how you’ve been and you say busy. Or crazy busy. Or soooo busy. Or ridiculously busy. NEWS FLASH: Everyone’s busy, and everyone thinks they’re busier than everyone else. I’m not saying I don’t do this, because I definitely do, but I’m trying to catch myself before saying it and respond with a less superficial and more sincere answer. All that to say, everyone’s busy and with busyness often comes stress. How do we combat that?

Let’s pray. 7 times a day. I’m good at praying in the morning and I’m good at praying at night. I’ll sometimes sneak a prayer in there during the day if I have a second to breathe or something major is happening. Most days my prayers are very similar. We kind of get stuck in the typical prayer, yeah? 7 shares a strategic plan to pray throughout the day, and I love it. The author calls these 7 prayers “breathing spells for the soul, an oasis to remember the sacredness of life, who we are, how to offer God the incredible gift of our lives, and learning to be in the midst of so much doing.”

I’m so in. Are you?

The Night Watch (midnight)
The Awakening Hour (dawn)
The Blessing Hour (midmorning)
The Hour of Illumination (noon)
The Wisdom Hour (midafternoon)
The Twilight Hour (early evening)
The Great Silence (bedtime)

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The Night Watch (midnight) – The Night Watch advocates for others in a dark night of the soul: the suffering, abandoned, oppressed, lonely.

“My eyes are awake before each watch of the night, that I may meditate on your promise.” Psalm 119:148
Readings: Psalm 42, Psalm 63, Psalm 119: 145-152

The Awakening Hour (dawn) – The Awakening Hour includes thankfulness for a new day, a fresh slate. Our desire to live this day for Jesus glory is an offering. We celebrate God’s redemption.

“Satisfy us in the morning with your steadfast love; so that we may rejoice and be glad all our days.” Psalm 90:14
Readings: Psalm 19, Psalm 95, Psalm 147

The Blessing Hour (midmorning) – This mid-morning pause has two emphases: The first is mindfulness of the Spirit’s abiding presence to invite the Spirit to stir our souls. The second is about the sacredness of our hands and work asking the Spirit to bless us with creativity, composure, inspiration, love.

“Let your loveliness shine on us, and bless the work we do, bless the work of our hands.” Psalm 90:17
Readings: Psalm 67, Psalm 84, Psalm 121

The Hour of Illumination (noon) – At midday we honor the hour when Jesus embraced the cross, and we recommit to giving our lives away. We pledge to shine brightly, becoming hope to the hopeless and light in the darkness.

“You are the salt of the earth … you are the light of the world.” Matthew 5:13-14
Readings: Psalm 24, Psalm 33, Psalm 34

The Wisdom Hour (midafternoon) – With the evening approaching, we pray for perspective on this short, fleeting day and life and we hold out forgiveness, release our grudges and offer our gifts to the world.

“For to me, to live is Christ and to die is gain.” Philippians 1:21
Readings: Psalm 71, Psalm 90, Psalm 138

The Twilight Hour (early evening) – We invite God’s peace as we leave work and transition into dinner, family, home, rest, training our minds toward tranquility. The Twilight Hour is for exhaling, calming our minds and transitioning into the evening and being thankful for the day.

Readings: Psalm 34, Psalm 139, Psalm 145

The Great Silence (bedtime) – This prayer concludes the day; the focus is on awareness and we include not just weaknesses but the strengths and accomplishments of the day. The second theme is darkness – We ask the Spirit to guard against our enemy, protecting our seal and innocence in Christ.

“By day the Lord directs his love, at night his song is with me – a prayer to the God of my life.” Psalm 42:8
Readings: Psalm 23, Psalm 91, Psalm 134

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life lately

IMG_9334{celebrating Samantha’s birthday – a few pics from over the years}

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{Easter with family}

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{eating this deliciousness made by my mom while in town}

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{LOVE sign making class with my community group girls}

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{wonderful Friday afternoon with my mom – pictured here: champagne + blackberry mango pop at First Friday on the Square}

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{Hawaiian bridal shower for the beautiful Nicky, and getting ready for her bachelorette party tonight <3}

xo xo

Book Reviews: Mindy, Facebook + The Dinner

Today and the next two days in NWA are cold, rainy and grey. Bleh. (Where are the WARM + SUNNY April showers??) All I want to do is curl up in sweats with a big cup of coffee, Bon Iver floating through the apartment and a book that could enrapture me for days. Unfortunately that’s not going to happen. However, if you’re lucky enough to find yourself in such a situation, below are a few recommendations.

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Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? (And Other Concerns) – I’ve already talked once on my blog about how much I love Mindy Kaling. Seriously, she’s the best. If I was still unsure about her as I started reading her book, I was hooked by page 5. In her intro she’s answering questions about the book and her last question/answer is “What else should you know about me? (1) There is no sunrise so beautiful that it is worth waking me up to see it. (2) I would like to be friends with Beyonce Knowles.” AMEN and AMEN! (Also, the dress code for her funeral is to be: chic devastated. Can we just be best friends now?)
Grade: A+

Lean In – Quite opposite from Mindy’s book, I decided to read this book after a co-worker told me about.If you’ve been following the media, you know there is SO much controversy surrounding this book, and I honestly don’t understand why. It was practical, honest and smart. In every single chapter I could relate to something she was saying. No matter what you believe about Sheryl Sandberg (COO of Facebook) or criticisms you’ve heard about this book, if it inspires more women to LEAN IN and take control of their careers as it did for me, that’s all that really matters.
Grade: A

The Dinner – I’m only about halfway through this book, but so far it’s brilliant. There is one setting – the dinner table at a restaurant. There is one family – the Lohmanns. There are a lot of topics of conversation, but only one secret underlying it all and underneath every bite of humor, you’re trying to figure out what it is.
Grade: B+

Furious Love – This is next on my list when I finish The Dinner. I’ve always been drawn to Old Hollywood – Marilyn Monroe, Audrey Hepburn, James Dean and the stars of this novel – Elizabeth Taylor and Richard Burton. Their love is known as one of the most passionate of all time. They were married and divorced twice and though he was remarried at the time of his death, Liz said she believed they would have been married for a third and final time. Passion, glamour, betrayal, wealth – what more could one need in a novel??

xo xo

Oreo Brownie Delight {recipe}

Husband loves Oreos. I mean looooooooooves them. He has to have his Oreos + milk every single night. Even still, the other day he told me there weren’t enough Oreos in his life, so I decided to create a special dessert just for him adapted from a Pinterest recipe.

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{how can you go wrong with these ingredients?!}

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{be generous with the ice cream, friends}

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{stuff as many of those double-stuffed Oreos in there as you can}

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1 box Brownie Mix
eggs & oil (as called for by the brownie mix)
1/2 c. (6 oz) Cookies & Cream ice cream
1/4 c. hot fudge topping
1 pkg Oreos

Preheat oven & spray an 8×8 baking dish generously with cooking spray. Combine brownie mix, eggs, and oil as directed on the back of the box, but do not add the water. Add ice cream and hot fudge to the brownie batter and stir to combine. Pour half of the brownie batter into the baking dish, layer with Oreos, then top with remaining batter. Bake for 40-45 minutes or as directed on the back of the box.

xo xo