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What’s inspiring you this week?

xo xo

You might also enjoy: Inspire me. , Fail Better, {words to live by}


happy 84th birthday to my {late} grandmother.

IMG_1215I don’t remember Mary Ann too well, or Marnan as I called her, as I was young when she passed. But she lives on through stories and hopefully will continue to live on through me and my mom. I like to think she and I were similar in several ways. For one, we’re both an Aquarius and say what you will about zodiac signs, but I think it connects us. Yesterday I read three strengths of Aquarius that I think fit us both:

helpful, inventive and witty.

She got her degree in social work from the University of Arkansas and was always looking to help others.

She was a fabulous interior decorator and could host one hell of a party.

She could be stubborn and opinionated (as can I).

She allowed dessert first because why not?

She loved to shop, Neiman’s being her favorite store, of which I apparently had many dresses from as a little girl.

She loved the outdoors and fresh flowers and farmer’s markets.

Just recently my mom found a journal Marnan kept while I was still in the womb. She had drawn a picture of my mom and her belly with me inside writing she just couldn’t wait to meet me. She also wrote she was going to call me Mille no matter what my parents finally decided on (stubborn or what?). I will forever cherish that piece of Marnan’s heart.

In loving memory of Mary Ann McLaughlin

xo xo


The Three Week Cooking Challenge // Week 2

So I think I’m getting into a cooking rhythm, which is exactly what I wanted to come out of this. Yes, I wanted to save money, but I also wanted to remind myself that cooking isn’t that hard if you plan and it can be fun sometimes. It’s still not my favorite activity, but it’s gotten more bearable. We made some great recipes this week:

Tuesday – Grilled Cheese + Tomato Soup

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Wednesday – Navy Bean & Ham Soup + Cornbread

Thursday – Pasta w/Steak & Roasted Red Peppers + Veggies

Friday – Southwestern Stuffed Peppers {recipe below}

Saturday -We broke our streak, but for a very worthy cause! Husband was participating in a 24 hour hackathon and won 2nd place, so we had to celebrate!!

Sunday – Chicken + Veggies + Sister Schubert’s Rolls

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Southwestern Stuffed Peppers via

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  • Olive oil
  • 1/2 lb lean ground turkey
  • 1 heaping tbsp of taco seasoning
  • 2 cups of cooked rice (I used spanish rice, but would typically probably use brown)
  • 3-4 bell peppers, halved and seeds removed
  • 1 can of black beans, drained & rinsed
  • 1 (15 -16 ounce) jar of salsa
  • Shredded Cheddar Cheese
  • Toppings:
  • fresh cilantro
  • sliced avocado

1. Pre heat the oven to 400 degrees. Lightly coat the peppers with olive oil and roast in a baking dish about 20-25 minutes just until cooked thru. Remove the peppers from the oven and allow to cool until you can handle them.

2. While the peppers are cooking, cook the ground turkey meat.

3. In a bowl add the taco seasoning, cooked ground turkey, black beans and rice. Add in the jar of salsa and mix well.

4. Carefully spoon the turkey mixture into each half of the bell peppers and place back into the baking dish. Cook the peppers for another 15-20 minutes or until the peppers are cooked all the way thru. Before removing from the oven sprinkle the tops of each pepper with shredded cheddar cheese. Place back into the oven just until the cheese has melted.

5. Remove from the oven and top with fresh cilantro and/or avocado slices just before serving.

(My preference: Serve with ice cold Corona)

These turned out amazing! I would definitely make them again. I also had a lot of leftover turkey mixture because I made the entire package of meat (about 1.5 lbs) and mixed it with all of the rice and beans. The next day I used it to make some delicious tacos.

You might also enjoy: The Three Week Cooking Challenge, Update: Week One of The Three Week Cooking Challenge

xo xo


Las Vegas Throwback

I’m heading to Vegas in T-minus 4 days. Here’s a look back at some of my other trips to LV …

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{2010: 21st birthday with my bestie}

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{2010: Tao}

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{2010: my paparazzi shot of Paris Hilton}

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{2010: Society of Professional Journalists conference}

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{2012: one of my favorite photos (and best shows) despite the copyright marks}

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{2012: father & son}

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{2012: Tao}

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{2012: chillin’ at the Wynn poolside}

xo xo

You might also enjoy: NYC Throwback 2007


life lately

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{reading this// almost done and so so good, but creepy!}

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{playing this // lunchtime hide & seek}

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{wearing this// working from home dress code}

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{and while husband is away … // Rockfish Hackathon – read more here}

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{wife will play// girls night in prep}

xo xo

P.S. 7 days until my birthday! and Vegas! my birthday in Vegas!

You might also enjoy: Life Lately {holiday edition}, Life Lately {12.21}, Life Lately {9.15}


The Three Week Cooking Challenge // Week 1

Recap: Husband and I are in the midst of The Three Week Cooking Challenge as we’re trying to save money for Vegas. Honestly, it hasn’t been as hard as I was expecting … until the weekend. Is it just me, or don’t you just always want to go out to eat on Friday night? But we didn’t. We did however confess to each other on Sunday how badly we both wanted to eat out, something we’d kept mum on all week. But again, we didn’t act.

Our week in dinners:

Monday – takeout leftovers from Sunday

Tuesday – salmon + rice + veggies

Wednesday – leftovers

Thursday – steak + pasta + veggies

Friday – To Die for Pot Roast, recipe below + veggies + rolls

Saturday – appetizer + drinks out (that doesn’t reaaaally count, right? if it helps, it inadvertently became dinner)

Sunday – pizza

Over the next two weeks I’m looking forward to making this (thank you, Megan!) and this (thank you, Erin!) and this (thank you, Mom!) and finding some more deliciousness from my wealth of cookbooks.

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To Die For Pot Roast

1 beef roast

1 pack brown gravy mix

1 pack Hidden Valley Ranch dressing

1 pack Italian seasonings

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1. Place roast in crockpot.

2. Mix all three seasoning packs together then sprinkle on roast.

3. Pour half cup water around bottom of roast.

4. Cook on low 6-7 hours.

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{not the best picture, but if only you could smell through the computer!!!}

We’ve also enjoyed the leftovers as pot roast sandwiches and tonight will be pot roast + rice + veggie bowl.

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Enjoy!

xo xo


32 Things You Should Stop Caring About // Thought Catalog

I’ve mentioned once before in my blog how much I love Thought Catalog. It’s a blog of collective thoughts about relatable, relevant non-fiction. Almost every time I read one they are spot on. and hilarious. I read this one this morning and had to share because it is so.damn.true. I always need these reminders, and hopefully you can gain something out of it too.

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1. Your ex. (Yes, really, once more with feeling.) Your ex.

2. Whether someone thinks that the literature, music, art, film, or any other kind of entertainment you enjoy isn’t cool.

3. When someone looks at the food you’re eating and comments on how it isn’t good for you. (THAT IS WHY I ORDERED CHILI FRIES BITCH PASS ME THE RANCH DRESSING)

4. What the people you don’t like post on their Facebook status (why are you even still friends with them?).

5. Getting/maintaining a tan.

6. Which celebrity’s breasts are exposed this week.

7. Which celebrity is cheating on which other celebrity.

8. The opinions of people who a) will never like you and b) have absolutely no bearing on your life.

9. Whether or not you look as good as some random, well-dressed stranger on the subway.

10. Who is making more money than you, or how much exactly you think that they are making.

11. The fact that you are perceived as not as sexually appealing as a picture of a celebrity or model that has been put through so many rounds of makeup and Photoshop as to be rendered little more than a cartoon.

12. Reality television stars, how much sex they are having (and with whom), and whether or not they decide to start a family.

13. Whether people you know are getting married, having children, or making big life changes when it either hasn’t happened to you yet or you don’t want it to happen at all.

14. The social lives of people who don’t invite you out places.

15. What negative thing a critic has to say about a film you really enjoyed.

16. The fact that friends are going to make harmless decisions that we wouldn’t necessarily make for ourselves. (They are there for your love and companionship, not to have another parent.)

17. What people are going to think about the clothes that we really enjoy wearing.

18. What someone might be saying behind your back (the answer is almost invariably that they aren’t even thinking about you).

19. The path that everyone else thinks that it would be “appropriate” or “practical” for you to take, especially if that path doesn’t make you happy.

20. Whether or not your hobbies, interests, or personality make you “masculine” or “feminine” enough.

21. How many followers you have on Twitter.

22. Being the only one without a significant other at a given event.

23. Having the same IKEA furniture as all your other 20-something friends who have IKEA furniture. We’re all in the IKEA furniture phase, okay? It doesn’t make us bad people.

24. Changing your personality when you hang out with someone who you can feel doesn’t like you.

25. Eating salads on dates. (Can I get this burger literally wrapped in bacon, please?)

26. Not being as well dressed as all of the beautiful models doing impossibly twee activities that people keep reblogging on Tumblr.

27. Not being found attractive by someone who is not even remotely worth your time.

28. Whether or not you cry during movies that are somewhat embarrassing to cry during, such as The Notebook. (Oh my god, but seriously, when they have to subdue her and Noah is crying and, oh my god, the feelings.)

29. Watching your former bullies become train wrecks via Facebook (though I will admit that that shit is pretty satisfying.)

30. Hitting your life milestones at the “right” moments.

31. Proving to people who aren’t willing to listen that you are an okay person who is happy and whole.

32. Trying to convince your friends/acquaintances to start watching Breaking Bad**. If they’re not going to do it, it’s their loss, dude.

** or in my case – Revenge, Scandal, The Walking Dead, etc. etc.

A few other Thought Catalog favorites: How to be a 20-Something, I Went To An Adult Christmas Party, 42 Life Lessons from Mean Girls, I Want To Be A White Girl Rapper

xo xo


Pop Candy {Destiny’s Child Reunion, Blue Ivy’s First Birthday, Kimye Baby Bump}

I wrote my first Pop Candy post this summer {Pre-Weekend Pop Candy} sharing the latest pop culture and entertainment news I’ve been enjoying lately. So I thought it was time to re-visit. What IS going on in the world of celebs these days??

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Destiny’s Child to release new song Nuclear + new album with past recordings, oh my GOSH how exciting. This song better live up to some oldies like Survivor and Bootylicious. But wait, there’s more – HOT off the press: Destiny’s Child will reunite at Super Bowl halftime. This is almost as exciting as the Spice Girls reunion at the Olympics. {Beyonce Knowles, Kelly Rowland, Michelle Williams}

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Speaking of Beyonce, her little one turned 1 year old a few days ago! How cute is this pic with daddy and Blue Ivy?! Fun fact: Jay-Z rents a luxurious basement suite at the Barclays Center for $1 million/year so they can watch the Brooklyn Nets without worrying about little Blue. {Jay-Z, Blue Ivy Carter}

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Oscar nominations were announced yesterday, and I’m THRILLED to report Quvenzhane Wallis as the youngest Oscar nominee ever! The 9-year-old was nominated for Best Actress in Beasts of a Southern Wild, as I predicted in my post {Top 10 Movies of 2012} a few weeks ago … {Quvenzhane Wallis}

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Speaking of youngins, thank GOODNESS T-Swift is over this 18-year-old punk. Supposedly she’s already in the recording studio writing about it. Funny tweet I saw for a song name: “You’re Just Not My Style.” {Taylor Swift, Harry Styles}

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Okay, okay, I know this is fairly old news, but honestly I’m still fascinated/intrigued by it for whatever reason. And these photos were just released of the pair in Paris where you can actually see Kim’s baby bump for the first time. {Kim Kardashian, Kanye West}

xo xo

 


Catch Me If You Can Musical {review}

As I’ve mentioned here I’m a huge theater geek, and as I’ve mentioned here I love to review things and plan to make this a more regular occurrence on my blog.

Last night, I went to see Catch Me If You Can at the Walton Arts Center with friend Samantha. I went into the show completely blind – hadn’t read any reviews, heard any songs, heard any synopsis – which rarely happens, but I was looking forward to watching with a fresh eye. I did learn before the show that it was the same story as the movie with the same title with Leonardo DiCaprio and Tom Hanks, which I never saw, and learned it was based on a true story.

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Plot Synopsis: Have you seen the TV show White Collar? The exact same story line. Con artist turns FBI agent. You can read more about the plot here if you wish.

The show began with a big enough bang, setting up the plot and opening with a big number with flashy costumes, dances, etc. “Live in Living Color” However, I immediately noticed something wasn’t quite right. The main character didn’t have quite a strong enough voice, the dancing was average, the sub-plot was difficult to follow, the supporting actors didn’t have enough depth. And this was the theme of the entire show. I kept thinking as I was watching that they needed juuuust one more week to practice until show time. Multiple lines were obviously flubbed and several dancers were off rhythm. As a performer myself, I completely understand the difficulty in the space, but when you’re paying at least $60 a ticket, you really expect more.

What was good about the show? The set, the orchestra and the costumes. I personally love when the orchestra is shown onstage and they did a fantastic job working it into the set. The set was also very fun, light, colorful and dynamic. I’ve already ragged on a few members of the chorus line, but boy did I wish I was onstage in their role. (Fun fact: Every time I see a show I wish I was onstage performing in it.) They had a ton of fun costume changes including Pan Am stewardesses (dream job), nurses and showgirls.

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The bright spot of the show: when the main character goes to New Orleans to meet his lady’s parents. The parents’ acting was phenomenal and hysterical. At one point they were badgering him with all these questions, but really the most important was … Was he a Lutheran? As a Lutheran myself, I found it funny and relatable. The mom was overly dramatic, but it gave the show the punch it needed and the audience definitely noticed. Unfortunately that only lasted about 15 minutes, but if that energy had been throughout the entire show, it would have gotten a standing ovation from me.

Final rating: B

Other ratings from shows I’ve seen in the past month:

Billy Elliot, Walton Arts Center – A-

Dead Accounts, Broadway – F (I know, I know, but I’m sitting here trying to think of one tiny thing I enjoyed about it and just can’t think of anything…)

Nice Work If You Can Get It, Broadway – A+


rainy tuesdays.

AulAfklCAAEp4sdHappy Tuesday, xo xo


The Three Week Cooking Challenge

As you may or may not know, we’re not the biggest fans of cooking.

As you may or may not know, we’re going to Vegas in 3 weeks.

As you may or may not know, Vegas is expensive.

Thus, the Three Week Cooking Challenge was born.

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Husband and I are trying to save money for Vegas, and currently one of the things that sneaks most of our money is eating out. SO we’ve decided to challenge ourselves and not eat out until Vegas – approximately 17 days. Does that sound easy to you? Because to me, it sounds like just about the most difficult thing in the world. A few tips I think will ease the pain …

1. Work as a husband and wife team. One night I cook, one night he cooks. One night I plan, one night he plans. One night I clean, one night he cleans.

2. Leftovers are your best friend.

3. Dinner doesn’t have to be a production. Sometimes a grilled cheese and soup is all you need.

4. Frozen meals & frozen veggies are also your best friends. Lately, we’ve really been enjoying Bon Appetit Steamed Baked Meals for Two.

5. I plan on looking at this as a “class” to learn a new hobby. Instead of a knitting class, I’m taking my own cooking class.

6. We have about 25 cookbooks currently collecting dust, so I think it’s time to bust them out.

7. Crockpot. CROCKPOT! The best ever kitchen invention.

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So friends, we need all the help we can get. Share your favorite easy meal in the comments below!

I’ll keep you updated on our challenge. xo xo


life lately {holiday edition}

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{celebrating mom’s birthday on the Fayetteville square 3 days before Christmas}

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{Christmas with the fam}

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{snuck in some relaxation}

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{confirmed birthday plans, now only 22 days away …}

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{kisses for 2013, NYE at Petit Bistro}

xo xo


Houlihan’s Inspired Bacon Mac and Cheese {recipe}

Last weekend husband and I had a fun day out – shopping at the Promenade, matinee to see Django Unchained, then drinks and appetizers sitting at the bar at Houlihan’s. We love Houlihan’s and love all the appetizers we’ve ever gotten (goat cheese & artichoke poppers, chipotle chicken nachos, thai chicken wings, chicken and avocado eggrolls) but then, we got the mac ‘n cheese. Maybe we were just reaaaally hungry, or maybe it was as good as we thought it was, but we vowed we were going to re-create it.

So here’s our version, and boy did we come pretty damn close. Enjoy.

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Houlihan’s Inspired Bacon Mac and Cheese

  • 2 cups cellentani macaroni
  • 4 strips of bacon, cut in pieces
  • 1/2 cup sour cream
  • 1 egg
  • 1 c. cheddar cheese (fresh grated, pre-shreaded has additives that prevents it from melting properly)
  • 1/2 c. asiago cheese
  • 2 tbs butter
  • a few dashes of smoked paprika
  • S&P to taste

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In a large pot of boiling water, add the noodles and cook until just before done. Don’t over-cook the noodles or this will end up mushy.

Drain the pasta, return the pot to the stove and cook the bacon until crispy, remove from pot and allow to cool.

Drain off bacon grease and return drained noodles to the pot.

In a separate bowl, add the egg and sour cream, beat until well combined.

Add the butter and the egg mixture to the noodles and return to medium heat. Stir until the butter has melted.

About 1/4 a cup at a time, add the cheese. Stir until cheese has melted before adding more.

Add the spices and chopped bacon, stir.

Makes 4 portions.

Petit Bistro {restaurant review}

As a New Year’s resolution for my blog, I’ve decided to start doing northwest Arkansas reviews. I pride myself in being that person anyone can come to and ask about the newest restaurant in town, or where to purchase _____. So, to kick off the new year reviews: Petit Bistro. As you might remember, husband and I decided to have a quiet NYE (New Year’s Eve: The Most Overrated Night of the Year) and started it with a four-course meal at said restaurant.

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Left to right: Lentil & Black-eyed Pea Soup; Warm Wilted Spinach Salad w/Bacon, Cranberries, Molasses Vinaigrette; Ribeye w/Shitake Compound Butter Served with Garlic/Buttermilk Whipped Potatoes and Zucchini & Squash Julienne; Joel Gott Cabernet Sauvignon

Not pictured: Chocolate Lava Souffle w/Vanilla Ice Cream and Macerated Berries

The meal was divine and the atmosphere was exactly what we were looking for – romantic and quiet, with character. Instead of re-writing all my thoughts on Petit Bistro, below is the article I wrote for AY Magazine. Enjoy.

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There’s a secret in northwest Arkansas. It’s hidden behind a rustic, stone building in Bentonville and hosts business executives, wine connoisseurs and date-night couples who casually enjoy a relaxed, elegant atmosphere.

Nearly hidden among the trees on eight acres of land, Petit Bistro sits just off North Walton Boulevard, just before the street crosses into Bella Vista. Walking past the picturesque setting outdoors with twinkle lights scattered in the trees, it’s like stepping into another world outside of the Ozarks.

The warm brown and gold pantones invite customers into the hidden gem. Petit beige curtains line the windows, and unique oval-shaped lights provide a magical feel as they shimmer onto the ceiling and walls, revealing antique décor that feels rustic, yet upscale.

To add to the cultural ambiance, there’s the unmistakable accent coming from owner Dario Amini. Usually found behind the bar chatting with customers, Amini’s accent is difficult to place. Not French or Italian, but German, with influences from his Iranian father and Italian mother.

Amini was born in Germany, lived in Iran and Italy, but most recently spent 20 years in Los Angeles. He started four gourmet quick-serve restaurants in L.A. An alternative to the food court, these upscale cafes opened near high-end stores and served home-baked pastries, international cuisine and a full-service espresso bar.

Moving to northwest Arkansas because of friends and family, he expected to open a larger restaurant, but when he saw the population and culture of the town, he decided on something a little more quaint.

“With all the changes in northwest Arkansas culturally, with Crystal Bridges and the Walton Arts Center, you’ve seen a shift for better-quality restaurants and retail shops,” Amini said. “It’s slowly starting to manifest itself that way. We timed it correctly, by chance, and people are enjoying us as part of the community.”

Open since April 2010, Petit Bistro offers something for every palate. A “fusion of different cultures” Amini mixes Italian, Spanish, French, Lebanese and Moroccan into the menu. With no boundaries for the types of food he can create, Amini simply gets inspiration from his mother’s cooking, all the places he’s lived and visited and great restaurants from Aspen, Colo., to New York City.

“I have these ideas in my head, so whenever a dish comes to my mind, I try to get as close to it as possible, re-creating it in the kitchen,” he said.

Unafraid to try out new dishes, Petit Bistro is famous for their unusual specials, including Swordfish and Shrimp Vera Cruz Pasta; Lamb Lollipops over Mason Salad and Fingerling Potatoes; and Crab Cake Burgers with cheese, avocado and chipotle.

A staple on the menu, and just about everyone’s favorite, is the Cheesecake Du Jour, which has included a variety of flavors, everything from limoncello, rum raisin, avocado vanilla bean (the most incredible cheesecake I’ve ever eaten) to chocolate chip peanut butter. It could be a hit or miss, but it’s hard to mess up cheesecake, Amini insisted.

To pair with the cheesecake and the variable menu, Petit Bistro boasts an extensive wine list featuring domestic and international wines from $19 to $883 a bottle.

For dinner the menu is separated into Petit Plates, Salades, Pizza Rustique, Grand Petit Plates and Desserts. Though we recommend checking out the cheesecake of the day, you can’t go wrong with the Bread Pudding Au Chocolate, which has more of a brownie consistency, or the Bistro Crème Brulee, the best in northwest Arkansas.

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Photo courtesy of Beth Hall

The Petit Plates include burgers, smoked salmon, grilled brie     and the beautifully-plated Pan Seared Tuna Tower ($15). Placed between crispy wontons, the tuna is encrusted with sesame seeds giving it a unique Asian flavor and includes wasabi aioli, pickled ginger and soy on the side.

For the Grand Petit Plates, the Braised Pork Osso Bucco ($36) is a must-see and a must-eat. Osso bucco — Italian for bone with a hole — is typically a veal dish. The braised pork is so tender it falls off the bone into the surrounding, rich sauce enhanced by porcini mushrooms and fresh grilled vegetables. The Lebanese Lamb Chops ($32) is another unique item on the menu, mostly due to the Israeli cous cous. Larger than typical cous cous, the vegetable is similar to rice with a dense consistency and pairs well with the lamb chops.

Whether for an evening of drinks and dessert, a quiet dinner inside or a get-together on the patio with live music, Petit Bistro is a delicacy of northwest Arkansas.

 


2013: be happy.

“I have decided to be happy, because it is good for my health.” – Voltaire

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I’m typically against New Year’s Resolutions, but this year I’ve decided just to go about it in a different way. Instead of listing the same things I want to do every year (lose weight, exercise more, eat healthier, read more, save more, etc. etc.) I’m making one goal, that if done every day, will lead to all of these things. Be Happy.

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Is this too simplistic? Or just simplistic enough? If you think about it, it can change everything, if we work to be happy every single day. It will affect the choices I make and the person I become. I’ve been thinking about this for a while now, but this morning I read my dear friend Nicky’s blog and she shared this quote from the book Eat, Pray, Love and it is just perfect for my 2013 goal.

“People universally tend to think that happiness is a stroke of luck, something that will maybe descend upon you like fine weather if you’re fortunate enough. But that’s not how happiness works. Happiness is the consequence of personal effort. You fight for it, strive for it, insist upon it, and sometimes even travel around the world looking for it. You have to participate relentlessly in the manifestations of your own blessings. And once you have achieved a state of happiness, you must never become lax about maintaining it, you must make a mighty effort to keep swimming upward into that happiness forever, to stay afloat on top of it.”

Brilliant and true. I can’t tell you exactly what my 2013 will look like, or if I’ll lose weight, save more, read more, but if I end up being truly happy every single day, what more could I really ask for?

xo xo

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You might also enjoy: 2012: resolutions via Kate Spade


2012: my year in pictures

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{January: Sundance Film Festival}

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{March: Kiss a Pig Gala}

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{May: Celebrating my bff’s graduation from graduate school}

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{June: Weekend getaway to St. Louis for Fun. concert}

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{July: My first family reunion, Hot Springs}

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{August: West Coast Vaca}

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{September: My best friend’s wedding}

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{October: Got a new job at Walmart!}

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{October: Got our puppy Olli!!}

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{December: NYC with mom}

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You might also enjoy: 2011: my year in pictures, 2010: a year in review

xo xo


My Top 10 Movies of 2012

I LOVE movies. I could watch a movie every day and be happy. I also love ranking and reviewing movies, which I do often with several of my movie aficionado friends. As I was reading list after list of top movies of 2012, I decided to make my own list, and to make this an annual post. Granted, we are now in the height of movie season when the best films of the year often come out and while husband and I have been to the theaters 3 times this week, we still haven’t seen everything we want to. So this may be an incomplete list, but as of what I’ve seen here are my top 10 movies of 2012 …

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10. 21 Jump Street: The award for most laugh-out-loud moments during a movie goes to 21 Jump Street thanks to Jonah Hill and Channing Tatum. I thought this would be a typical stupid/funny movie, but it was pure hilarity.

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9. Beasts of the Southern Wild: You don’t really think a 5-year-old can act until you’ve seen this movie. Quvenzhané Wallis who plays Hushpuppy at the very least deserves an Oscar nod. She delivers some of the best one-liners I’ve ever heard.

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8. Django Unchained: A classic Tarantino film with outstanding performances by Leonardo DiCaprio and Christoph Waltz. The intriguing story and movie style make up for the gore and length.

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7. The Amazing Spider-Man: I enjoyed the last Spiderman, I really did, but this one didn’t even compare. Andrew Garfield nailed Peter Parker, and the chemistry with Emma Stone was golden.

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6. The Hunger Games:  I read the book first, thus I was expected to be disappointed. But I wasn’t at all. That’s 5 points right there. I want to grow up to be just like Katniss Everdeen (or Jennifer Lawrence, for that matter.)

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5. The Dark Knight Rises: Captivating. Suspenseful. Heart-wrenching. Who knew Batman could be this complex? A fantastic end to the trilogy. A round of applause goes to Christian Bale, but a standing ovation goes to Joseph Gordon Levitt.

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4. The Perks of Being a Wallflower: This movie ripped my heart out and put it back together. It made me feel sorry for those in high school and it made me want to go back to high school. And it gave me a quote I truly believe – “We accept the love we think we deserve.”

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3. Silver Linings Playbook: In all honesty, I put this one in my top 10 list before I even saw it. Then after I saw it, I moved it to #3. What a beautiful, moving, hilarious movie with two beautiful, moving hilarious actors.

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2. Moonrise Kingdom: This movie was so close to being #1 because #2 just doesn’t even seem to do it justice. By far the best Wes Anderson movie yet that captures your soul and keeps you rooting for young love the whole way through.

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1. Argo: Rarely am I on the edge of my seat for an entire movie and enjoy it. The enthralling plot line was brought to life splendidly with a host of actors. Bravo, Ben Affleck. Bravo.

Editor’s Note: I’ve been dying to see Zero Dark Thirty as I think it would definitely make this list, but it isn’t playing near us. So, for all intents and purposes, it’s on my top 10 as well.

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What was your top movie of 2012?

xo xo


New Year’s Eve: The Most Overrated Night of the Year

Can I get an amen?

For as long as I can remember, I’ve always tried so hard to make New Year’s Eve special, and by special I mean, spending it with a group of people, planning a party, and trying to make it the best night of the year. But you know what, that’s just too much pressure, and honestly, it never has been the best night of the year. Of course we’ve made some wonderful memories with friends over the years, but the best nights are usually the most random and not necessarily a perfectly planned evening with fancy dresses, overpriced drinks and crowded bars.

So this year, we’re doing things a little different. But first, a look back at NYE pasts …

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[2006/2007 – Bentonville]

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[2007/2008 – Shogun, Fayetteville]

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[2008/2009 – volunteer trip to Texas]

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[2010/2011 – Shawn and Rhagen’s, Rogers]

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[2011/2012 – Crabby’s; Eddie Haskell’s, Rogers]

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So this year, we’re going to be an old married couple and do things quietly. We have a reservation for two at Petit Bistro, then we’ll be snuggling up with the pup to watch the ball drop at midnight.

As they say in The O.C., “The way you spend your New Year’s Eve is the way you’ll spend the rest of the year.” Well, if my 2013 is just as relaxing and content as my evening with husband and Olli, I’ll take it.

xo xo


Happy 21st Birthday, Mom – Love, Daughter & Tina Fey

My mom’s birthday is always an occasion to celebrate. Last year, husband and I hosted a party for her and some friends (Birthday Cheers) and it turned out fabulous. But this year was extra special, she was turning 21 of course! So she and I spent a weekend in NYC, then celebrated her actual birthday with friends, family, pizza, beer, cupcakes and a beautifully adorned square. As I was thinking about my mother and what a wonderful job she’s done raising me, I was reminded of this Mother’s Prayer from Tina Fey’s book Bossypants. What a perfect, hilarious yet heartwarming prayer – one that I know my mother has said, and one that I will certainly say in a few years.

XOXO

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First, Lord: No tattoos. May neither Chinese symbol for truth nor Winnie-the-Pooh holding the FSU logo stain her tender haunches.

May she be Beautiful but not Damaged, for it’s the Damage that draws the creepy soccer coach’s eye, not the Beauty.

When the Crystal Meth is offered, may she remember the parents who cut her grapes in half and stick with Beer.

Guide her, protect her when crossing the street, stepping onto boats, swimming in the ocean, swimming in pools, walking near pools, standing on the subway platform, crossing 86th Street, stepping off of boats, using mall restrooms, getting on and off escalators, driving on country roads while arguing, leaning on large windows, walking in parking lots, riding Ferris wheels, roller-coasters, log flumes, or anything called “Hell Drop,” “Tower of Torture,” or “The Death Spiral Rock ‘N Zero G Roll featuring Aerosmith,” and standing on any kind of balcony ever, anywhere, at any age.

Lead her away from Acting but not all the way to Finance. Something where she can make her own hours but still feel intellectually fulfilled and get outside sometimes And not have to wear high heels. What would that be, Lord? Architecture? Midwifery? Golf course design? I’m asking You, because if I knew, I’d be doing it, Youdammit.

May she play the Drums to the fiery rhythm of her Own Heart with the sinewy strength of her Own Arms, so she need Not Lie With Drummers.

Grant her a Rough Patch from twelve to seventeen.Let her draw horses and be interested in Barbies for much too long, For childhood is short – a Tiger Flower blooming Magenta for one day – And adulthood is long and dry-humping in cars will wait.

O Lord, break the Internet forever, that she may be spared the misspelled invective of her peers and the online marketing campaign for Rape Hostel V: Girls Just Wanna Get Stabbed.

And when she one day turns on me and calls me a Bitch in front of Hollister, Give me the strength, Lord, to yank her directly into a cab in front of her friends, For I will not have that Shit. I will not have it.

And should she choose to be a Mother one day, be my eyes, Lord, that I may see her, lying on a blanket on the floor at 4:50 A.M., all-at-once exhausted, bored, and in love with the little creature whose poop is leaking up its back. “My mother did this for me once,” she will realize as she cleans feces off her baby’s neck. “My mother did this for me.” And the delayed gratitude will wash over her as it does each generation and she will make a Mental Note to call me. And she will forget. But I’ll know, because I peeped it with Your God eyes.

Amen.”

-Tina Fey


life lately

Aside from my NYC travels, which you can read about here, here’s what else has been happening in my life lately.

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{wearing this // pants Anthropologie, shoes Target}

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{winning this. #tswiftobsessed}

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{cuddling with this}

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{enjoying an evening of this}

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{dying over this White Elephant gift}

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{loving this new lunchbox from Target + Neiman Marcus, Tory Burch}

xo xo


Chewy Chocolate Coconut Bars {recipe}

There once was a time in my life that I would bake the days away, and cook, and bake, and cook. Oh to be a sophomore in college again with an abundance of free time and nothing to fill it with. (except baking) These days it’s rare, because it’s not at the top of my list for things I want to do after working all day. However, I’m trying to bake some for the holidays and upcoming parties and family get togethers, so to start …

Chewy Chocolate Coconut Bars

 2 c. flour

1 tsp. baking powder

1/2 tsp. salt

2/3 c. butter

2 c. packed brown sugar

1 1/2 tsp. vanilla extract

3 eggs

1 1/2 c. semisweet chocolate chips

3/4 c. chopped walnuts

1 c. shredded coconut

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Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Grease a 9×13 inch baking pan.

In large bowl, cream the shortening, brown sugar, eggs and vanilla extract.

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Slowly blend in flour, baking powder, and salt. Mix until well blended. Fold in chocolate chips, walnuts and coconut. Spread the mixture evenly in pan.

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Bake 20 to 25 minutes. Let cool before cutting into bars.

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Even Olli wants to bake more this holiday.

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xo xo

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The Best and Worst of Gossip Girl Fashion

As a tribute to the series finale of one of my favorite shows, I wanted to reminisce over the ups and downs of Gossip Girl fashion. Throughout the six seasons I’ve always had my own commentary on the choice of clothing. Known for its fashion forward and exquisite pieces, Gossip Girl will always be heralded as a fashionista’s guide to living in the city.

[The Best]

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B certainly knows how to mix her florals

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Chuck can pull off anything, including pink

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My all-time favorite Serena look

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Can I start riding horses, and dress like this?

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Relaxed and suave, just the way I like it

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Adore the dress and the necklace

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Bright and beautiful

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A best for S & Lonely Boy

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Simply exquisite – B’s wedding dress by Elie Saab

[The Worst]

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Very Lonely Boy and very terrible

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Just.too.much.

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This is probably Little J’s best look, and it’s still on the worst list

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This is just dowdy, and B, you are anything but

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You’ve come a LONG way, Mr. Bass

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aaaand so have you, S

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As adorable as this picture is these are not your best looks, S & B

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Similarly, check out this article from The Huffington Post – 10 Things Gossip Girl Taught Me About Fashion. I couldn’t have said it better myself.

you know you love me, xo xo


NYC Throwback 2007

As I was posting photos from my weekend getaway to New York City, I was reminiscing about my last trip to the Big Apple the summer I graduated high school. So I wanted to share a few photos …

 

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[Mom + great aunt Deane]

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[first night out]

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[took this photo just for my then high-school sweetheart, awww]

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[first ever celebrity sighting … Fergie!]

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[visiting the Glamour offices]

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[photoshoot in Central Park]

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[on the Today Show]

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[Naked Cowboy]

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[with Lisa Rinna after Chicago – loved her from way back when in Days of Our Lives]

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[Legally Blonde]

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[terrifying pedicab ride]

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Teaser for tomorrow’s post: The Best (and Worst) in Gossip Girl Fashion

XOXO


Weekend Picturebook: New York City

{Food + Drink}

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[Friday fuel – Shake Shack]

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[Blood Orange Cosmo – Casa Lever]

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[Saturday Brunch – Balthazar]

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[After-show drinks, Prohibition Punch – The Campbell Apartment]

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[Salads + Spinach Risotto – Giano’s]

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[Sunday breakfast – Magnolia Bakery]

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{Sightseeing}

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[The Boathouse – Central Park]

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[Metropolitan Museum of Art]

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[Soho]

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[Rockefeller Plaza]

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{Fun}

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[Pawn shop > bouncer > nightclub – Beauty & Essex]

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[Santa Pub Crawl]

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[Nice Work If You Can Get It + Matthew Broderick (!!!!)]

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[Stardust Cafe]

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What a FANTASTIC weekend getaway celebrating my mother’s birthday! We ate, we drank, we walked, we crashed, we played, we laughed, we sang, we saw – we did it all! Happy Birthday Mom, I love you! ❤

XO

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